This is a curious case where thousands of online tree creators
have copied an undocumented tree from an online source, without regard to the
validity of the data. Unless someone has personal data from unpublished
sources, this case appears to have “gone viral” although little evidence exists
to back it up. It is important to remember as you try to make sense of this
case, “The absence of evidence is NOT evidence of absence!”
In the 1850 U.S. Census—the first census to enumerate
everyone in the household—Jessie F. Wixom appeared in Bureau County, Illinois. He
is listed as 60 years old, born in New York, a carpenter. His name is followed
by that of a 33-year old woman named Rebecca, presumably his wife (relationships to
the head of household were not indicated until the 1880 census), born in Ohio. After
Rebecca’s name were listed five additional members of the household: 16-year-old
Russel, born in Ohio; and 14-year-old Mary Jane, 10-year-old Martha Ann, 9-year-old
Matilda, and 5-year-old Adaline, all born in Illinois. Russel was listed as
“deaf and dumb.”
Virtually all of the online trees
that contain Jessie F. Wixom suggest that Rebecca was his second wife, whom he
married in 1829, after the death of his first wife, Mary Morecraft, who died in
1829. (No documentation was provided for any of those claims.) The creator of what probably was the original online tree entry apparently used Rebecca’s age in the 1850 census, 33 years old, to
calculate that she was born about 1817. However, whoever made that computation
did not make note of the fact that being born in 1817 would make her 12 years
old when she married Jessie in 1829.
Genealogists run into anomalies like this all the time. We
usually suspect that the enumerator copied down the age incorrectly, or that the
marriage date is wrong. We then search for additional sources to try to
discover better information. It is often a good idea to have some hypotheses in
mind that will help focus the search. In this case, one notion could be that
Rebecca’s correct age could have been 43 or 53. Another notion might be that
the marriage date was actually closer to the age of the oldest child, Russel,
who was born about 1834, based on his age of 16 in the 1850 census. Russel may
not have been the first child born to Rebecca, but at least that scenario allows a few more years before being married.
A few of the online trees list Rebecca’s birth year as 1793—without
any documentation. That birth year wouldl have her 36 years old at marriage, and
only three years younger than Jessie—a nice resolution to the anomaly, but one
that raises another anomaly. The youngest child listed in the 1850 census was 5 years old, or born about 1845. This child would have been born when
Rebecca was 52. As we say in genealogy, “Possible, but unlikely.”
One method for clearing up this kind of anomaly is to
look at the censuses prior to the 1850 census. Unfortunately, from 1790 through 1840,
only the name of the head-of-household was listed; the rest of the members
of the household were not listed by name. All members of the household were tallied by sex and age. Of the several Jessie Wixoms in the 1840
census, not one contains the minimum tallies to match up with Jessie’s
1850 listing. Extrapolating back to the 1830 U.S. Census, I found
the same results—no entry for a Jessie Wixom that could match up to the 1850
results.
The next approach was to try to track down a death record or
obituary for Rebecca. After a bit of digging, I located a photo entry online that could be that of Jessie’s wife. The stone is old and broken, but the top
half contains the name Rebecca, and the bottom half says, “wife of …F. Wixom.” The stone is in the Ottville Cemetery, in Hall Township, Bureau County, Illinois. Hall
is the of the township where the Wixom family lived.
Normally a headstone entry would help resolve many of the
questions. This particular headstone image does little to help. The critical
details of Rebecca’s death are covered up by dirt and grass that was not moved
aside when the photo was taken. I contacted the individual who posted the photo
to see if a new photo could be taken, but the response was that “the cemetery
is on private property and there is no going back.” Essentially, the last two
digits of Rebecca’s death date are covered up, as is her age at death.
UPDATE, 1 SEPTEMBER 2015: Well, it turns out that a whole bunch of online trees have
bad information about Rebecca, the wife of Jesse Fletcher Wixom. As mentioned above, a
photograph of her headstone showed the last two digits of her death year and
her age at death obscured by dirt and grass.
A letter sent to the Bureau County Genealogical Society in Princeton,
Illinois, was answered with the following:
“Your research request arrived today. The cemetery part is easy since I recorded
all the gravestones in this cemetery with a co-worker 3 years ago. Rebecca’s gravestone states the following:
Rebecca Wixom,
wife of J. F. Wixom, d. Jan 12, 1857, age 46y
The stone is laying flat and not in very good condition, but
this is exactly what is written on it.
Carol McGee, Researcher”
This delicious piece of information indicates that Rebecca
was born about 1811, rather than 1817.
This puts her marriage age at about 18, far more possible than age 12, and
it confirms her death as 1857, which matches the census data.
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